Fight for your relationship, or get out.

No more fighting in it.

Relationship Coaching for Gay Couples

Repair your relationship, or separate with dignity.

Best Gay Relationship Coach in San Diego

this seal means nothing, but I am the best 😉

of yourself & your partner?

Resentful

of not standing up for yourself?

Tired

to have your own back?

Ready

Coach Alex Ray

        Relationship Coach        

This may scare you, but I’m not set one way or anther on whether or not you stay together or break up.

I’m set on you both standing up for yourselves,
you both getting what you want and need,
and you both experiencing what it’s like to be deeply authentic with each other.

I help gays like you improve their relationship or find the right one.

Here’s what my clients say…

Alex helped me build the courage to be who I truly am and to discover what I really want. I can't thank him enough for giving me the permission I needed to finally be me.
Brian
I would leave sessions with previous coaches feeling small. With Alex, I felt incredibly enlightened and EMPOWERED by who I am. I now have invaluable tools that I use daily.
Keila
Coach Alex was able to unlock emotions and issues within me that I wasn't even aware of. He's a down to earth, no judgement guy that makes you feel comfortable.
MaShawn

Alex has made such a difference to my overall mental health. If you're looking for a FABULOUS person to be in your corner, and offer amazing solutions to your problems, then you've found them!

It was a delight to collaborate with Coach Alex on our Himeros TV shoot. His passion and joy were infectious - and his wisdom elevated the project to new heights!

In coaching

You’ll learn a bunch of tools (specifically catered towards LGBTQIA+ relatinships) to help you be more intimate in & out of the bedroom.

You’ll practice speaking up with me there to help you communicate more effectively.

You’ll gain the confidence to have your own back, and to be your true authentic self all of the time (even when it’s uncomfortable).

Together you’ll redesign your relationship and stay together experiencing better, deeper connection.

OR

You’ll part ways on the best terms possible, maintaining love and respect for each other.

this is what I do.

How long does it take?

3 months. In 3 months you’ll hardly recognize your relationship. You’ll be more confident, more authentic, sticking up for yourselves in and out of the bedroom, just all around badass unicorns.

We’ll have some sessions together, and other sessions 1-on-1.

After you complete your 3 month program, you’ll have the option to continue working with me for ongoing support as needed.

Curious about pricing?

It’s $6,000 for you as a couple.
That’s a hell of a lot cheaper than a divorce lawyer. And a lot happier outcome too.

To get started, schedule our ‘first date.’

Just like a date, we’ll get to know each other and make sure this is a good fit.