Become the type of gay who
stands up for them self,
and finds mind blowing sex
& love.
Best Gay Relationship Coach in San Diego
this seal means nothing, but I am the best 😉
of yourself & the people who’ve abused your kindness?
Resentful
of not standing up for yourself?
Tired
to relate & date differently?
Ready
Coach Alex Ray
Relationships Intimacy Sex
I get it, I never used to stand up for myself. I’ve been through many relationships where I seemed to be the one holding it together. I think part of me liked dating guys who were a mess, because I needed them to need me.
It’s time to stand up for yourself.
It’s time to get what you want.
It’s time to experience real, reciprocal love.
I help gays like you improve their relationship or find the right one.
Here’s what my clients say…
| Alex helped me build the courage to be who I truly am and to discover what I really want. I can't thank him enough for giving me the permission I needed to finally be me. |
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| Brian |
| I would leave sessions with previous coaches feeling small. With Alex, I felt incredibly enlightened and EMPOWERED by who I am. I now have invaluable tools that I use daily. |
| Keila |
| Coach Alex was able to unlock emotions and issues within me that I wasn't even aware of. He's a down to earth, no judgement guy that makes you feel comfortable. |
| MaShawn |
Alex has made such a difference to my overall mental health. If you're looking for a FABULOUS person to be in your corner, and offer amazing solutions to your problems, then you've found them!
It was a delight to collaborate with Coach Alex on our Himeros TV shoot. His passion and joy were infectious - and his wisdom elevated the project to new heights!
In coaching
You’ll learn a bunch of tools (specifically catered towards LGBTQIA+ people) to help you be more authentic in & out of the bedroom.
You’ll gain the confidence to have your own back, and to be your true authentic self all of the time (even when it’s uncomfortable).
Are you sick and tired of self-abandoning?
Are you navigating non-monogamy (ENM) or polyamory?
Do you want the courage to explore your secret kinks?
Do you want a satisfying relationship with someone who treats you right?
that’s what I do.
How long does it take?
3 months. In 3 months you’ll hardly recognize yourself. You’ll be more confident, more authentic, sticking up for yourself in and out of the bedroom, just an all around badass unicorn.
After you complete your 3 month program, you’ll have the option to continue working with me for ongoing support as needed.
Curious about pricing?
I offer tiered, class-equitable, pay-what-supports-you pricing using the Green Bottle Model from Worts + Cunning.
All prices are listed here.
To get started, schedule our ‘first date.’
Just like a date, we’ll get to know each other and make sure this is a good fit.