GBTQ Speed Dating

Off the Apps and IRL

Tired of endless swiping on Grinder? Ready for real-life connections? Join us for Queer Speed Dating, a vibrant event designed for GBTQ+ men seeking genuine interactions and a thriving social life. Held at Urban MOs, one of San Diego's most prominent Gay bars, we create an energetic, open space where you can authentically express yourself, meet engaging individuals, and expand your network beyond a digital ‘tap.’

What to Expect

•  Diverse Encounters Connect with a spectrum of GBTQ+ men ready to mingle and share experiences.

•  Stimulating Conversations Engage in lively discussions that ignite interest and spark new connections.

•  Casual, Engaging Vibe Enjoy a comfortable atmosphere perfect for being yourself and having a memorable time.

•  Social Network Growth Expand your circle and build meaningful friendships.

What if I like / don’t like a date?

This is the beauty of speed dating: you meet in real life, but you don’t have to experience rejection. Let us handle it for you.

After each date, you’ll privately indicate whether or not you’re interested in connecting further with that date to keep exploring your spark, or to just be friends. After the event, we’ll gather your responses, and put you in touch with all of your mutual matches. Think of it like Tinder swiping… but in real life.

How It Works

•   Seven Dates Participate in seven fast-paced, seven-minute dates.

•   Confidential Matching Mutual interest and attraction drive our confidential matching process.

•   Personalized Connections Matches curated based on your profile and preferences.

Facilitators

Kayla Adreene (she/her) A clairvoyant coach, Kayla will guide your connections and help you tap into your intuition, creating a deeper sense of connection to manifest and maintain healthy lasting love.

Coach Alex Ray (he/she/they) An expert in building healthy LGBTQ+ relationships, Coach Alex Ray will provide guidance and support throughout the evening, ensuring a positive and affirming experience.

Our Commitment and Your Invitation

Respect and Inclusion

We have a zero-tolerance policy for disrespect and strive to create an inclusive space where non-binary folks and trans men are welcomed and celebrated. Additionally, any discomfort will be promptly addressed with the support of our facilitators.

When and Where

Location Urban MO’s - San Diego's prominent Gay Bar - 308 University Ave, Hillcrest, San Diego, CA 92103 

Time 6:30 PM

Age 21+

Price $20 (Non-refundable)

Schedule

6:30-7:00PM Pre-Mixer Social – Drinks and Introductions: Arrive, grab a beverage, and familiarize yourself with fellow attendees.

7:00-8:30PM Speed Dating Sessions – Rapid Connections: Experience dynamic, seven-minute dates. (Please arrive promptly).

Post Event Social Continue the conversation and deepen connections.

Secure your ticket now, your dream guy could be waiting for you!